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Breaking up with anyone is never fun but breaking up with a Leo can be even harder. They’re charming, confident and proud. If you’re thinking of ending things with a Leo man you need to do it with care and respect. This guide will help you through the process of breaking up with a Leo man and get out as unharmed as possible.
The Leo Man
Characteristics of a Leo Man
Leo men born July 23 – August 22 are ruled by the sun which gives them their sunny and magnetic nature. They are often:
- Confident and charming
- Generous and warm
- Passionate and enthusiastic
- Loyal and protective
- Proud and sometimes arrogant
Why Breaking Up with a Leo Man is Different
Leo men have a high sense of self worth and pride. They value their public image and are very sensitive to criticism. Because of this breaking up with a Leo man requires a special approach to avoid unnecessary drama and hurt feelings.
Before You Break Up
Think About Your Reasons
Before you start the breakup take some time to think about your reasons for ending the relationship. Are you unhappy with specific behaviors or is it a fundamental incompatibility? Knowing your reasons will help you communicate better.
Choose the Right Time and Place
Pick a time and place where you can talk privately and without interruptions. Avoid public places where emotions will run high and make sure you both have time to talk.
How to Break Up with a Leo Man
Be Straightforward
Leo men like honesty. Be clear and direct about your reasons for the breakup. A healthy relationship is key as it means mutual respect and clear boundaries which can make a big difference in the break up process. Don’t beat around the bush or give vague reasons. Recognize the signs a Leo man is no longer invested in the relationship anymore like increased distance and lack of affection.
Use “I” Statements
To not make your Leo man feel attacked use “I” statements. For example say “I feel our relationship is no longer working for me” instead of “You never make me happy”.
Show Respect and Appreciation
Acknowledge the good things in your relationship and express gratitude for the good times. This will help soften the blow and show you respect his feelings.
Be Prepared for a Big Reaction
Leo men can have big reactions to rejection due to their pride. Be prepared for a range of emotions from anger to sadness. Stay calm and give him space to talk.
After the Breakup
Give Him Time
Leo men need time to process their emotions. Respect his need for space and don’t contact him immediately after the breakup. Leo men may ignore their exes completely as a defense mechanism. This will help him heal and get back to himself.
Be Firm
Once you’ve made the decision to break up stick to it. Leo men will try to win you back with their charm but you need to be firm and clear about your intentions.
Focus on Yourself
Breaking up is hard on both sides. Take time to heal and focus on yourself. Surround yourself with supportive friends and do things that make you happy.
How to Make a Leo Man Regret Losing You After a Breakup
Go No Contact
One of the most effective ways to make a Leo man miss you is to go no contact. This means not contacting him, not checking his social media, not responding to his messages. This will make him realize your absence and miss the attention he used to get from you. This will make a Leo man regret losing you because of his pride and loyalty.
Work on Yourself
Focus on self improvement after the breakup. Whether it’s learning a new skill, hitting the gym or advancing in your career, showing you’re doing great without him will make a Leo man miss you and regret losing you.
Show Confidence
Leos are attracted to confidence. Show your self assurance and independence and he will remember why he was attracted to you in the first place. Post positive updates on social media showing you living your best life.
Be Cryptic
Don’t share too much about your life immediately after the breakup. Being a little mysterious will intrigue a Leo man and make him wonder what you’re up to and miss you.
FAQs
How does a Leo man react to a breakup?
Leo men can react big time to breakups because of their pride and sensitivity. They may be angry, sad or a mix of both. A Leo man can show their dark side which is cold and detached when their pride is hurt. Over time they will regain their confidence and move on.
Should I be friends with my Leo ex?
You can be friends with a Leo man after a breakup but it depends on both of you. Give each other space and time before considering a friendship.
Can a Leo man forgive and forget?
Leo men can forgive but they have a hard time forgetting. Their pride and sensitivity makes it hard for them to move on from a breakup especially if it was painful.
Will he try to get back together?
A Leo man will try to win you back with his charm and persistence. If you’re sure about your decision, you have to stay firm and clear in your communication.
How do I know if I should break up?
Trust your instincts and reflect on your happiness and fulfillment in the relationship. If you’re unhappy or incompatible most of the time, breaking up might be the best for both of you.
Conclusion
Breaking up with a Leo man can be tough because of his big personality and pride. Be honest, direct and respectful and you’ll get through the breakup with grace and dignity. Give him space, stay firm in your decision and focus on yourself. Over time both of you will move on and find happiness in new beginnings.
